So, my friend Melissa J. spoke in church today, I didn't hear much of what she had to say, I was a little busy trying to stop Tristan from screaming, or too busy fuming at why I would be there, sitting on the bench alone, with 4 kids, while TJ passed the sacrament, feeding a bottle to one, and trying to give the other ANYTHING she wants to prevent her from making a scene... oh yeah, did I mention we were in the FIRST row, and heck, we were even early to church today, but we have to sit in the big bench now, with our big family.
Anyway, back to what I was saying... I DID hear a few things that she had to say. I think she was talking about goals, and how we can improve ourselves with and by setting goals. I basically only heard 3 things, and I made sure to type them into my phone and email them to myself while I sat there. This is what I heard:
1. Start everyday by deciding to NOT do something. (Like stopping a poor habit.)
2. Start everday by DOING something. (Like starting a good habit, or doing something you have been "meaning" to do, but haven't gotten around to it yet.)
3. Write it down. (If you don't write it down, it doesn't count, because you aren't held accountable the same way, and you can't look back at what you wrote to see if you really accomplished the task.)
So, I think I'd like to implement a few of those into my life. I mean, I have given up on drinking soda, I'm now 10% done with that, hey that sounds kinda cool! But there's a whole other HUGE list of things that I would love to get to, and I guess I don't ever scrape up enough "do" to jsut get up and get it all done, and I make a lot of excuses on the way. And maybe I'd be happier if I was doing all those things that I would love to get to. Oh yeah, we also watched "Julie & Julia" last nite (great movie if you were wondering.) I'm now considering buying Julia Childs' cookbook... but then decided I should lose weight before consuming all that butter. However, the girl in the movie makes a plan to get her through, so I think that's what I'll do, I want to be doing one thing everyday that gets me caught up on my list.
Along side this, I recently heard in a conference talk or something (I don't remember who said it...) But He was saying that we should beautify our homes one room at a time. Now that is something I think I can handle. I don't EVER get a chance to spend much time cleaning anything. the windows of time I have are small, and far between. But I think if I jsut made a list of different things, then I would actually have a plan to get them done. So, maybe my list will go something like this:
Sunday~ Finishing sewing baby items, make bread
Monday~Deep clean master bath, catch up on laundry folding (my nemesis in life)
Tuesday~Remove all toys from my office, remove all trash from my office
Wednesday~ Minimize toys in girls' bedroom, remove clothing that is too small
Thursday~ Declutter pantry
Friday~ Clear all dresser surfaces in Master bedroom, deep clean hall & downstairs bathroom
Saturday~ find home for new saws in garage and NOT in living room
Okay, so that's a decent list. I think I should be able to work on those... I mean, it's gotta be easier to just wake up, do what's on the list, then take a nap on the couch; instead of wake up, take a nap, then rush to figure out something to do, so it LOOKS like I did something today, although that has usually worked until now;)
There are a few other things, like going to the gym and stuff, I think I'll hold off on adding them to my daily list, since I'll only be able to go once or twice this week. And hopefully after seeing the doc this wednesday we'll have a better idea of what needs to happen with them!